The Counselling Experiences of Individuals who are Estranged from a Family Member

Blake, Lucy, Bland, Becca and Imrie, Susan (2018) The Counselling Experiences of Individuals who are Estranged from a Family Member. Family Relations. ISSN 1741-3729 (In Press)

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For the first time this study explored the counselling experiences of individuals estranged from a family member and the ways in which therapy was helpful and/or unhelpful. Background: Family relationships are often assumed to be permanent. However, family members both can and do become estranged from one another, which can be a challenging experience, leading to feelings of sadness and loss and experiences or perceptions of stigma. Method: Findings are presented from an online survey of individuals who are estranged from one or more family members and had sought support from the charity ‘Stand Alone’. Open-text responses were thematically analysed from 209 respondents: 133 of whom elaborated on counselling experiences which had been helpful and 107 of whom described counselling experiences that had been unhelpful. Results: Helpful encounters with therapy were those in which respondents felt supported to make their own decisions about their family relationships, developed insight and understanding through working with professionals who were knowledgeable about estrangement, and moved forward in their lives. Conclusion: Therapy that is delivered by professionals who offer non-directive support (rather than suggesting that clients act or feel a certain way) and who are knowledgeable about estrangement will be of the greatest help and utility to individuals estranged from a family member. Implications: Commissioning bodies who offer support to estranged individuals need to ensure that counsellors are knowledgeable about estrangement and that training on this issue is included in ongoing career professional development.

Item Type: Article
Uncontrolled Keywords: Estrangement; intergenerational relationships; client’s perspective; therapeutic relationship
Subjects: R Medicine > R Medicine (General)
Divisions: Nursing and Midwifery
Date Deposited: 21 Dec 2018 11:23

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